just life

Today is one of my sad days.

December 16th has been a repeating date for my life. Coincidentally, three of my most significant relationships all started on this day. ...

  Happy Halloween!!  Throughout my life, Halloween, Christmas, and my birthday have always been my favorite holidays. In addition to that...

Having sex with the ex sounds like a bad idea. But, is it always? That depends. Are you still emotionally attached? If yes and the sex comes...

Most jealousy is a direct result of insecurities from a lack of intimate discussions, honesty, and respect. I am not jealous at all, nor wou...

Men enjoy the fantasy that they can score or date the beautiful woman they are handing money to. Knowing this, strippers usually say or do w...

I just received an email reminding me that today is Valentine's Day. If you don't have someone to share it with, it should be j...

Not long ago, I started talking with a gentleman who was closer to the My Ideal Partner list than I've met in many years. We discussed...

Many years ago, a man I was seeing told me that he (or any other man) would marry me based upon sexual skill alone. While that was probably ...

This blog post was inspired by the following redacted email which I received earlier today: I had a friend in college...he dated women, go...

I had norovirus all last week and, since I had so much down time, I pulled up Season 1 of Ally McBeal on NetFlix. When it was on TV over a d...

After much reflection, I understand the common theme behind why my relationships haven't succeeded. Despite having worked as a stripper,...

My birthday wasn't pleasant. In fact, it was pretty sad because the reality of my failed relationship finally left the shock phase and e...

  "I love you, and because I love you, I would sooner have you hate me for telling you the truth than adore me for telling you lies....

When people decide to use the internet to find a potential partner, many don't know what to do. It's easier than you might think! H...

      Today in the United States; we celebrate our nation's independence. Why not take a moment to celebrate your independence as well? ...

This year I am in a relationship...so, rather than writing an annual revamp of the "My Ideal Partner" list , I am sharing the dive...

Another blogger I follow recently publicly shared a story about how her grandparents started dating. Here is an small excerpt: He said she ...

Happy Valentine's Day!! Thank you for making today the happiest Valentine's Day that I've had in almost a decade.

It's as if I wrote the "My Ideal Partner" list to describe him. Maybe I did... We have known each other for a long time. He is...