just life

2005 and 2006 were very tough years for me. Among other catastrophes, a few of my loved ones died unexpectedly. While I won't ever ...

Lent's over, how did I do? Cursing: While I wasn't able to quit, I made a dramatic reduction. Honestly, I had no idea my mouth wa...

This year I am in a relationship...so, rather than writing an annual revamp of the "My Ideal Partner" list , I am sharing the dive...

Another blogger I follow recently publicly shared a story about how her grandparents started dating. Here is an small excerpt: He said she ...

My masturbation has spiraled out of control again. While I haven't been having unhealthy sex (over two years SA clean), this is such a s...

Happy Valentine's Day!! Thank you for making today the happiest Valentine's Day that I've had in almost a decade.

Don't become old with regrets. These are the most common: 1)  I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life ot...

Generally I try to avoid talking about politics with this blog. However, this is too important to stand by and not speak up. Going to war wi...

The " No Pants Subway Ride " for 2012 is on Sunday, January 8th. Wish I could participate!

Random acts of kindness make the world a better place. It doesn't take much. Make it your New Year's resolution to practice at least...

If you truly want to quit stripping, follow these instructions: Figure out how much money you need to survive without any luxuries. This mea...

Hugnation is always very "feel good" and incredibly positive. Today I sat in on a session about goal setting.     :) 1) Avoid go...

The Voice Of Knowledge is the third book in a series by Don Miguel Ruiz. I'm finally getting around to reading it. :) Here are some quo...

It's as if I wrote the "My Ideal Partner" list to describe him. Maybe I did... We have known each other for a long time. He is...

Unfortunately, last night management of Big Al's told me that they no longer allow traveling strippers. Considering I've been well l...

From working as a Vegas stripper, I could out-drink 4 big men in a row. My party days were intense. Seriously. I was drinking 30-40 shots of...

It's that time again. Burning Man is August 29-September 5. Whether you're going or not, take a few minutes to learn from Halcyon...

There was a study in the United States which proves that strippers make more money when they are ovulating. These statistics are average e...