just life

At the beginning of this year, the pastor at my church said to look at 2020 with mindful observant eyes and have 20-20 vision in all aspects...

     I saw the above image elsewhere on the internet,. It was surprising to me how most women chose (including saying it would take $15 t...

As part of re-entering the dating world, I've revised my lists.   Who I am: Honest, intelligent, loyal, likes to help people, e...

Many years ago, a man I was seeing told me that he (or any other man) would marry me based upon sexual skill alone. While that was probably ...

   Without referring back to the most recent version, I re-wrote my My Ideal Partner list from scratch, changing the format a little. MU...

After much reflection, I understand the common theme behind why my relationships haven't succeeded. Despite having worked as a stripper,...

How did I get so far into the year without doing this? Of course I know: I was focused on my relationship. Now that I am single again and re...

When people decide to use the internet to find a potential partner, many don't know what to do. It's easier than you might think! H...

This year I am in a relationship...so, rather than writing an annual revamp of the "My Ideal Partner" list , I am sharing the dive...

It's as if I wrote the "My Ideal Partner" list to describe him. Maybe I did... We have known each other for a long time. He is...

Most people have a set "type" of person who they are attracted to. That doesn't apply to me. Every man I've been with is c...

Who I am: Playful, independent, highly sexual, no regrets, ex-pat, generous, spiritual, zest for life, not afraid to say “no”, follows my h...

I've been searching for my life partner--someone who will be "Mr. Right" forever. Is this just an illusion? Many people only s...

I have done this the past two years in a row -- 2008 and 2009 . Here is 2010: Who I am: honest even when it hurts to be, zest for life, no...

By reading what I wrote it doesn't make sense how I stayed with my ex for so long. Hmmm.. Love is blind I guess. Now my eyes are open. T...

This is who I am. Love me or hate me. ABOUT ME: PROS: grateful, intelligent, self-aware, honest, likes dogs and cats, good in bed, happy...