just life

Many years ago, a man I was seeing told me that he (or any other man) would marry me based upon sexual skill alone. While that was probably ...

Life is good. No temptations to drink..

   Without referring back to the most recent version, I re-wrote my My Ideal Partner list from scratch, changing the format a little. MU...

So it happened again yesterday. I was passing a bakery when I saw a gorgeous slice of cake. I should've known better as, the majority of...

Feminist women have trained men to believe that they do not have to be men anymore. Most men are oblivious, only noticing the money they sav...

It happened again. Since I'm not religious in a traditional sense, I forgot about Lent (it ends in 9 days). Coincidently, it was around ...

I strongly believe that traditional chemotherapy and radiation isn't nearly as effective for treating cancer as nutrition and attitud...

This blog post was inspired by the following redacted email which I received earlier today: I had a friend in college...he dated women, go...

I had norovirus all last week and, since I had so much down time, I pulled up Season 1 of Ally McBeal on NetFlix. When it was on TV over a d...

Don't ask me to be your Valentine or wish me a Happy Valentine's day. Valentine's Day is for lovers, and I have none.  I am sing...

When I was a kid, I loved the Choose Your Own Adventure books. I would read them, and then go back and see what other options I could've...

I am selling my 2001 Lexus ES300 fully loaded with HUGE lot of new unopened adults novelties, new unworn stripper outfits (with tags stil...

After much reflection, I understand the common theme behind why my relationships haven't succeeded. Despite having worked as a stripper,...

Today's thought from Hazelden is:  "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly...." --Antoine de Saint Exupery ...

My birthday wasn't pleasant. In fact, it was pretty sad because the reality of my failed relationship finally left the shock phase and e...

A friend of mine and I were recently talking about our bodies. She retired a decade ago and misses her stripper figure. To help her get back...

During previous Thanksgivings, I've had to really think about what I should be grateful for (!!). Thankfully, I expanded my focus to see...

How did I get so far into the year without doing this? Of course I know: I was focused on my relationship. Now that I am single again and re...

  "I love you, and because I love you, I would sooner have you hate me for telling you the truth than adore me for telling you lies....