just life

Feminist women have trained men to believe that they do not have to be men anymore. Most men are oblivious, only noticing the money they sav...

It happened again. Since I'm not religious in a traditional sense, I forgot about Lent (it ends in 9 days). Coincidently, it was around ...

I strongly believe that traditional chemotherapy and radiation isn't nearly as effective for treating cancer as nutrition and attitud...

This blog post was inspired by the following redacted email which I received earlier today: I had a friend in college...he dated women, go...

I had norovirus all last week and, since I had so much down time, I pulled up Season 1 of Ally McBeal on NetFlix. When it was on TV over a d...

Don't ask me to be your Valentine or wish me a Happy Valentine's day. Valentine's Day is for lovers, and I have none.  I am sing...

When I was a kid, I loved the Choose Your Own Adventure books. I would read them, and then go back and see what other options I could've...

I am selling my 2001 Lexus ES300 fully loaded with HUGE lot of new unopened adults novelties, new unworn stripper outfits (with tags stil...

After much reflection, I understand the common theme behind why my relationships haven't succeeded. Despite having worked as a stripper,...

Today's thought from Hazelden is:  "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly...." --Antoine de Saint Exupery ...

My birthday wasn't pleasant. In fact, it was pretty sad because the reality of my failed relationship finally left the shock phase and e...

A friend of mine and I were recently talking about our bodies. She retired a decade ago and misses her stripper figure. To help her get back...

During previous Thanksgivings, I've had to really think about what I should be grateful for (!!). Thankfully, I expanded my focus to see...

How did I get so far into the year without doing this? Of course I know: I was focused on my relationship. Now that I am single again and re...

  "I love you, and because I love you, I would sooner have you hate me for telling you the truth than adore me for telling you lies....

Most people have seen character in either a movie or on television whom they can relate to. Since I rarely watch television--purposely don...

During a recent argument, I called my friend a "pretentious ass". It fit. For fun this morning, while still glowing with pride at ...

There are so many memories, and they all make me smile. He lived a full great life.